Men Staring At Women’s Chest; Compliment Or Creepy

Author Mike O'Brian

October 17th, 2023 2:04 PM

Man staring at a woman's chest while she's working

So here’s the question for women this morning…men staring at a woman’s chest, complimentary or creepy? This popped up on The Mike & Carla Morning Show for good reason. Last week, when Carla Rea was out sick, she made a visit to Walgreen’s. She started talking to a guy who she noticed was taking a peek at her chest. Instead of turning around abruptly, she found it to be very complimentary and thought, “…nice, he’s checking me out!”

So, with all that said, ladies, if you catch a guy checking you out, do you consider it complimentary or borderline creepy? Keep in mind that Mike O’Brian said that maybe once or twice okay, but going back for a third or fourth time might be considered a little odd. He also noted that to this day, if his wife wears something a little revealing, he still catches himself looking.

Staring at a woman’s chest, complimentary or creepy?

Well, the text lines blew up and mostly from women on this question. Mike & Carla were both shocked (SHOCKED) to find out that most women found it nice to know that men taking glance! In fact the older the women, the more they found it kind of flirtatious and made them feel good.

But again, if a guy just lands there and can’t look away, then it’s a problem. Understood loud and clear! Not too mention, it’s a little embarrassing for the guy getting caught as it is. However, one guy did call in with his opinion. He said that if they’re out there, then it’s clear the woman wants you to look. Really…is that true? And if hadn’t turned his head 38 years ago, he would not be married! He was even clever enough to quote a Bob Seger song to make it point.

Although this was a very sensitive topic, we tried to cover it with the utmost respect as The M&C Morning Show normally does. So, listen to the segment and you be the judge…and enjoy!

Mike O’Brian is the Program Director and Morning Show host on 96.3 KKLZ in Las Vegas, along with Carla Rea. He has been with the Beasley Media Group for almost 23 years. Mike was named one of the “Best Program Directors In America” by Radio Ink magazine. Over the years, “The Mike & Carla Morning Show” have been presented with a number of proclamations for their work in the community and numerous awards. Having lived in Las Vegas for over 35 years, he writes articles on living in Las Vegas, sports, and odd stories happening within the state of Nevada. Mike is the host of the morning show and program director of 96.3 KKLZ/Las Vegas. He has been doing mornings in Las Vegas for the past 38 years. Over the years, he has hosted a numerous amount of community events and has been the P.A. announcer for a number of sports teams in Las Vegas. He has written on living in Las Vegas, the sports teams here, as well as odd & little-known facts about Las Vegas & Nevada.

The Things Women Are Very Tired Of Being Judged For

We’ve talked about what men are sick of being judged on. For example, drinking girlie drinks, getting facials and massages, etc. But now, here ya go, things women are being tired of being judged on! Last week I wrote a piece on things men are sick of being judged for.

It’s a very sad fact is, women have been judged for so many things since the beginning of time. Hey, most likely I’m being judged right now for saying that! So someone on Reddit asked women to name those things they’re sick of being judged for.

A Few Things Women Are Tired of Being Judged On!

1. Getting older. Everyone should be allowed to age in peace, and have grey hair if they choose.

2 Lifting weights, or being competitive with sports. With weights, lots of women have heard things like, “That’s great – just don’t get too bulky.” Or the ever popular “is she a lesbian?”

3. Being bad at cooking, or other “WOMEN” chores. It’s 2022. There’s now DoorDash, curbside pick-up, cleaning services – so back off!

4. Being a stay-at-home mom. I’m amazed at how so many people act like this is a lazy option now, or like all moms should have a job too and do it all. One of the hardest jobs on EARTH is being a stay-at-home mom! On the flipside, being judged for “having a career” while being a mom also made the list. Make up your minds!!!

5. Anything and everything related to weight. Women face so much more judgment about it than men do. We always have, and we always will.

6. Dating Pete Davidson. Ok – just making sure you’re paying attention…

Hey, not sure if this is just in our country, but I think it might be worldwide. It’s 2023, let’s get over a few of these and move on if we can right? So, if you’d like, here are some others that will make you go “hmmm”….scroll down and check them out!

Other Things Women Are Tired Of Being Judged On!

Not smiling enough. Guys are never told to "smile more."
Really? Because guys are never told, “you should smile more.”
Not being married "yet"
Men seem to get a lot more leeway before they start getting the “Why are you still single” questions. And then there’s the “you haven’t met the right man yet” responses…
Not having children
“You never had any kids?” Why is it so weird that I might want to make a responsible choice to not have kids, and NOT be responsible for bailing someone else out of jail, other than myself? And no – I won’t “grow out of it.”
Being justifiably upset or angry about something
Women tend to get labeled as “aggressive,” called the B-word, or asked things like, “Is it that time of the month?” And yes – even by other women!
Wearing comfortable clothes
Guys can wear gym shorts with holes in the crotch, and flip-flops to the opera, and no one cares! Women? NO WAY.
Number two
Guess what? Women poop. WAIT – WHAT??? Yes, it’s true…