Group Therapy: Do I Tell My Friend About His Mom

Author Mike O'Brian

November 19th 12:41 PM

A friend sees his friend's mom having a romantic dinner. with their teacher.

In this week’s “Group Therapy”, it got a little frosty when a mom needs to know what she should tell her son to do. Does he tell his friend that he saw his mom with one of their teachers?

Oh yeah, The Mike & Carla Morning Show got the email and wanted listeners to comment on what they thought the mom should do. Keep in mind, that the kid works in a restaurant, saw he’s friend’s mom all cozy with one of their teachers.

Cleary, no one saw the kid, so the mom just wants to know what advice to give him? That’s the question this morning. Or have you ever been in this situation…and what did you do?

Now there is an article spotlighting this kind of thing from BareMarriage, It does give some good advice, however, it doesn’t talk about when your kid sees his friend’s mom having the affair.

Do I Tell My Friend His Mom Is Having An Affair

A pretty complicated spot to be in, since the kid doesn’t want to lose his best friend over this. So, does he tell him what he saw and let the chips fall where they may? Or say nothing, but when the friend finds out that his friend knew, what happens then?

Again, a sticky situation for sure. To be honest, the comments were split on this one. Some saying to stay out of it, others saying that the mom should make the call to the friends mom.

One listener even suggested the next time he sees them together, make sure they see him! Saying it’s one way to let the two adults know that their affair has been found out and they are on notice!

Overall, it was quite the dilemma, but in the end, the mom should make the call to the friend’s mom. Tell her that her son saw them and go from there.

Not sure if the friendship survives no matter what happens, but good luck to all right? Oh, Mike O’Brian did suggest to the kid, maybe get a new job. Move to another restaurant…Carla Rea didn’t see how that would make a difference.

Mike O’Brian is the Program Director and Morning Show host on 96.3 KKLZ in Las Vegas, along with Carla Rea. He has been with the Beasley Media Group for almost 23 years. Mike was named one of the “Best Program Directors In America” by Radio Ink magazine. Over the years, “The Mike & Carla Morning Show” have been presented with a number of proclamations for their work in the community and numerous awards. Having lived in Las Vegas for over 35 years, he writes articles on living in Las Vegas, sports, and odd stories happening within the state of Nevada. Mike is the host of the morning show and program director of 96.3 KKLZ/Las Vegas. He has been doing mornings in Las Vegas for the past 38 years. Over the years, he has hosted a numerous amount of community events and has been the P.A. announcer for a number of sports teams in Las Vegas. He has written on living in Las Vegas, the sports teams here, as well as odd & little-known facts about Las Vegas & Nevada.

6 Inexpensive Date Ideas: Ignite Romance Without Breaking The Bank

Some of us are perfectly okay with romance on a budget. But sometimes coming up with inexpensive date ideas can be a challenge. That’s why we came up with a list of the perfect inexpensive date ideas.

Dating Perspective

These days, people often meet on social media, dating apps, and through friends. And more people are opting for less formal first dates. It gets pricey paying for multiple dates at an expensive restaurant. Verywell Mind, a mental health platform listed some of the common reasons people are opting for “cheap” dates. Some of the reasons include inflation taking a toll on people’s monthly budgets, having bigger-than-expected housing costs, they’re just saving up, and others. But the good news is that dates don’t have to go on hold or be a problem for someone due to limited finances.

Collin Rutherford went viral on

Do you know what a "bottle night" is?

Probably not, because my gf and I invented it during a 2023 blizzard in Buffalo, NY.

We lock our phones away, turn the TV off...

Each grab a bottle of wine, and talk.

That's it, we simply talk and enjoy each other's presence.

We live… pic.twitter.com/uMl1iAtpmv

— Collin Rutherford (@collin_ruth89) March 4, 2024

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You Don’t Have to Stay In For An Inexpensive Date

Unlike Rutherford’s date idea, there are serval date options that don’t involve sitting at home. And of course, that type of date is generally best when you know each other well. But some workarounds that can help a date be more budget-friendly include using coupons or vouchers, finding a place with perks like a bar with a trivia night and prizes on the line, and searching up some free local events.

Inexpensive dates can alleviate your social anxiety on a first date and the financial stress of any date. Take a look at 6 inexpensive date ideas below.

Coffee Date
This date is a personal favorite because it’s not overly complicated. Coffee dates are casual and very low pressure. It allows you and your date to talk in a relax environment. Bonus points, if you make a local coffee shop. Local coffee shops often have a more intimate setting.

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Walk A Scenic Trail
By no means are we talking about an intense hike up and down mountains and hills. But a simple nature trail will do the trick. This kind of date gives you both a chance to enjoy nature and create a memorable experience. You can even plan for a sunrise or sunset walk for added romance. Be sure to wear comfortable shoes.

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Sip Date At A Brewery Or Wine Tour
There are several local breweries and wineries that offer tours throughout their establishment. These establishments usually have fun tours that break down the process of how their product is made. Sharing the experience with your partner is even better because you’ll get to talk about what you both think of the drinks. Some breweries and tours include tastings and often start at just $15 per person. Sometimes these places offer games and live music.

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Go On A Picnic
Picnic dates are a classic. You can get as elaborate as you want to and work it into any budget. You can have a picnic almost anywhere as long as there’s a place to drop a picnic blanket or a table for eating. Other than having food on hand, it wouldn’t hurt to have a card game handy or a Bluetooth speaker at hand to prevent awkward moments. Just a heads up, this date involves careful planning. If it’s peak sunshine and mosquito season, be sure to pack your sunscreen and bug spray.

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Volunteer Date
Volunteer dates can work really well for established couples. They can create new opportunities to meet people and make couple of friends. Obviously, a volunteer date may not be a good idea if you’re separated the entire time. So, this one may require a bit of research. Unless you’re looking to add a bit of adventure or something different to your date.

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Antiquing And Thrifting
Garage sales, estate sales, antiquing, thrifting, whichever you choose can make for a fun budget-friendly date. It’s like a scavenger hunt where you don’t know what the items are you’re supposed to find. But whatever you two may find you can always laugh and bond about it. There’s even the possibility of a fashion show if you find yourself in a place with a load of vintage clothes. The same concept can also be applied to bookstores and music stores.

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