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Dr. Ruth Interview: She Made ‘IT’ Normal And We Loved Her For That

Author Carla Rea
Dr. Ruth Interview: She Made IT Normal And E Loved Her For That

Dr. Ruth taught us about sex. There is no disputing that. And I think we truly all loved her for that.

Dr. Ruth Westheimer passed away at 96 years old, and it made me a little sad. My radio partner, and I, were lucky enough to interview her once, and she was absolutely delightful. But then again, she was always delightful, and that’s why we loved her.

Dr. Ruth Taught Us About Sex After A Whole Other Life

Born Karola Ruth Siegel, Dr. Ruth Westheimer was only 10 years old when she saw her parents for what would be the last time. Adolf Hitler was making his horrific mark on Germany, and Ruth boarded a train with other German Jewish children to escape. She lived in a children’s home until after the war.

At 16 years old she moved to Palestine and joined the Haganah – the Jewish Defense force – where she was trained as a sniper. No – she never shot at anyone.

Dr. Ruth was in her 50’s when she started schooling adults (and hormone raging teens) about sex. She spoke openly, unapologetically, and with no judgement, about sex. And she encouraged everyone else to do the same.

Dr. Ruth Became A Rockstar When It Came To Sexual Advice

In our Dr. Ruth interview, she talked about the fact that she “never asked for anyone’s name.” She was truly the original “asking for a friend” person. She once told Johnny Carson that we needed to talk about sex the way we talk about diets, and food. Without there being anything wrong with it, and in a decent, tasteful way.

She was a regular on late night talk shows, and had her own show for many years. She launched her radio show, “Sexually Speaking,” in 1980. It was pre-recorded, and It only aired after midnight, on Sundays, for 15 minutes. She went to the PD and said she wanted to go bigger, and they did. A live, one-hour show, with listeners calling in. Soon after, she went national. And the rest is history.

Her rise in popularity began in the early days of the AIDS epidemic. A time when talking about sex, and safety, and protection became necessary.

Dr. Ruth Made Those Words Just Seem Normal

Dr. Ruth – the woman who reminded you of your grandmother – made words like “pen**” and “vag***” normal – and ok to talk about. And on radio and TV, no less. She made People magazine’s list of “Most Intriguing People of the Century.” And Shania Twain even put Dr. Ruth in her song, ‘I’m Holding Onto Love.‘ “No, I don’t need proof to show me the truth/Not even Dr. Ruth is gonna tell me how I feel.”

I hope you enjoy listening to our Dr. Ruth interview as much as we did talking to her.

Carla Rea is the morning show co-host on “The Mike and Carla Morning Show" on 96.3 KKLZ, in Las Vegas. She has been working with her partner and friend Mike O'Brian for the past 25 plus years. At KKLZ for 12 years. Carla Rea is a Gracie Award winner. She started out in talk radio, "when talk radio was still fun" Rea says. Prior to, and along with doing the morning show, Carla is also a comedian. You may have seen her on Conan O'Brien, Evening at The Improv, Showtime, or several comedy clubs across the country. Carla also worked as a light feature reporter at KSNV/NBC Las Vegas, going behind the scenes at various shows, and restaurants on the Las Vegas strip. As a content creator 96.3 KKLZ, Carla writes in a sarcastic, cheeky, unapologetic way on Las Vegas, movies, TV, celebrities, and this thing we call life.

10 Best Rock/Pop Songs About Masturbation

Birds do it. Bees do it. Even educated fleas do it. No, we’re not talking about love. Instead, we’re talking about masturbation.

There are numerous benefits from engaging in the act of self-love. According to the Cleveland Clinic, many studies have found that masturbation helps reduce stress, improves sleep, prevents the onset of anxiety/depression and also enhances your sex life.

So, what has us thinking about “Celebrating Palm Sunday” or whatever other slang you use for masturbation? Cyndi Lauper’s debut album, She’s So Unusual, celebrates its 40th anniversary on October 14. That classic album featured a number of classic tracks. Notably, it also featured “She Bop,” one of the most iconic songs about masturbation.

Lauper paid tribute to the scandalous song in an Instagram post from 2021. She wrote of the song, “Most people didn’t get what ‘She Bop’ was about until much later when I went on Dr. Ruth’s radio show. I was playing along with her, making believe I was in a psychiatrist’s office, but then everything I said was blown up later by the press. Suddenly #SheBop was on the Parents’ Music Resource Center’s #FilthyFifteen list of songs that they said should be banned, like ‘Let Me Put My Love Into You’ by AC/DC.”

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Lauper added, “I was so mad because I had made sure that I never mentioned certain things so that little kids would never know. And then I was found out because of my big mouth. Now, every kid knew what it was about, and it wasn’t supposed to be that way. Oh, c’est la vie. That’s French for ‘whatever.'”

 

With this anniversary in mind, we’re taking a look at the ten best rock and pop songs about masturbation. As an added bonus, we’ve reached out to Cooper Lawrence, co-host of Beasley Media Group’s sex and relationship advice show “The Cooper & Anthony Show,” for her thoughts about each track. Enjoy, and keep your hands where we can see them. (Just kidding! You do you!)

  • Cyndi Lauper - "She Bop"

    Notable lyric: “Hey, they say that a stitch in time saves nine/They say I better stop or I’ll go blind.”

    Cooper Lawrence (CL): “The cultural significance of this song is huge. It’s about sexual assertiveness in women in 1983 which was still looked down upon. Women enjoying pleasure was something they didn’t talk about openly, and if they did, they were shamed for it – this song was incredibly incendiary at the time for that reason. Radio stations refused to play it, and that was good. That meant it hit a nerve.”

  • The Divinyls - "I Touch Myself"

    Notable lyric: Pick one! This song isn’t subtle.

    CL: “1990: This was when the real revolution happened leading to the music of today. This is the decade that third wave feminism had come for. Missy Elliot, Alanis Morisette, Gwen Stefani, heck even The Spice Girls were all about women taking back everything about sexuality and self-pleasure. And it all started with Chrissy Amphlett.”

  • Lady Gaga - "Dancin' in Circles"

    Notable lyric: “Hurts inside, but not this time/All the things that are on my mind/Vanish as I touch myself/Call out loud for you/Oh, can you hear me singin’?”

    CL: “This is one of the most subversive modern songs about masturbation because Lady Gaga came up with this song while working with two men: Mark Ronson and Beck. She told me in a 2018 interview that the music industry was still misogynistic, even to her. That’s why this song is a real f— you.”

  • Green Day - "Longview"

    Notable lyric: “My mother says to get a job/But she don’t like the one she’s got/When masturbation’s lost its fun, you’re f—ing lonely.”

    CL: “‘Dookie was neo-punk. A ‘punk’ has always meant a person up to something disreputable and socially deviant. In Shakespeare’s time, it meant a female prostitute. Modern punk= modern sexuality, which was not just honest but brutally so. (FYI: ‘Dookie’ is one of my favorite albums, next to ‘1,039/Smoothed Out Slappy Hours.’)”

  • Prince - "Darling Nikki"

    Notable lyric: “I knew a girl named Nikki/I guess you could say she was a sex fiend/I met her in a hotel lobby/Masturbating with a magazine/She said, ‘How’d you like to waste some time?’/And I could not resist when I saw little Nikki grind.”

    CL: “This song just added to Prince’s sexual anomaly. His sexuality was music and everything he sang, wrote and played oozed it. So, when he released this song about a woman and sex toys, and BDSM, presumably, it was embraced rather than rejected, which said a lot about where we were sexually in 1984.”

  • Billy Idol - "Dancing With Myself"

    Notable lyric: “Oh, when there’s no one else in sight/A-in the crowded lonely night/Well, I wait so long for my love vibration/And I’m dancing with myself.”

    CL: “Billy Idol was part of the punk movement, which is important because the punk look was a lot of fetish gear. It was a highly sexualized genre. Idol himself had said that the song was about people being disenfranchised in a world where they’re ‘left bereft’ and ‘dancing with their own reflections.’ So, if it’s about masturbation, it’s about a mental masturbation as well and the loneliness that comes with it.”

  • Violent Femmes - "Blister in the Sun"

    Notable lyric: “Body and beats, I stain my sheets/I don’t even know why/My girlfriend, she’s at the end/She is starting to cry.”

    CL: “This song was an inclusive anthem. It was for everybody because it was about the lack of sexual control (I stain my sheets), but it’s also another 80s canticle that led to the more overt sexuality of bands like Nirvana and Pearl Jam in the ’90s.”

  • Chuck Berry - "My Ding-A-Ling"

    Notable lyric: “When Pa started me to Grammar School/I found a place in the vestibule/And every time the bell would ring/They’d catch me playin’ with my ding a ling.”

    CL: “If you accept the fact that music fueled the sexual revolution then you have to acknowledge that ‘My Ding-A-Ling’ in 1952 was the first truly subversive song. Dancefloors in the 1950s were the only place teens could feel sexually free to express themselves so it stands to reason that music would be reflecting that.”

  • Elvis Costello & The Attractions - "Pump It Up"

    Notable lyric: “Out in the fashion show, down in the bargain bin/You put your passion out under the pressure pin/Fall into submission, hit-and-run transmission/No use wishing now for any other sin.”

    CL: “‘Pump It Up’ is always known as one of Costello’s best songs on several prominent rankings because it’s a great song but also, Elvis Costello has a way of normalizing anything, even masturbation.”

  • The Darkness - "Holding My Own"

    Notable lyric: “Lately, I’m doing what I can to pleasure me/Oh, I’m finding time to focus on my fantasies/I’m satisfied in my own company, ooh/I don’t need your permission/To take this matter in my own two hands.”

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTMfm4K1iY0

    CL: “It’s interesting that by 2003 everyone was like, ‘Ugh, another guy singing about his penis.’ So, while the song didn’t have the impact of say, ‘My Ding-A-Ling’ or even Green Day’s ‘Longview,’ the message is more about being human than being sexual. He’s prioritizing himself and loving himself in a very vulnerable and human way.”

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