Group Therapy: I Love Him, But Not In Love With Him
Another great session of Group Therapy this morning. A woman emailed The Mike & Carla Morning Show saying that she loves her boyfriend, but is NOT in love with him…what should she do?
Well, it’s a bit deeper than that. The story is that they have been dating for a few years. He’s a great guy and they get along very well. She can tell that he loves her deeply. In fact, her family and friends love the guy as well.
Here’s where it gets a little tricky…she said that she loves him, but may NOT be in love with him. And with that said, she’s getting a little nervous thinking he’s getting ready to propose to her.
What To Do, I Love Him, But I’m Not In Love With Him
Dr. Hamilton had some great advice for this very situation a couple of years ago. It definitely still happens and its a tough situation for both involved.
The family is over the moon with this news and can’t wait, but she wants to know how to move forward. She doesn’t want to hurt the guy, but doesn’t want to get married to a guy she’s not in love with.
She also said they are great friends and would like to remain friends. Doubt that happens when she comes clean right?
But the bottom line is, what should she do? Both Mike O’Brian and Carla Rea agreed to come clean and be honest. He might be upset for a bit, but even he deserves better right?
Even the listeners that called in and texted in seemed to agree as well. It’s a tough situation to be in and we’ve probably all been there. On both ends of that type of relationship…it’s tough.
A lot of people have a problem with the honestly thing…especially when you know it’s going to hurt. In the email she also noted that she didn’t want to continue the relationship for just her family.
Hey, we’re sure they will all get over it, but listen to the segment from this morning and see how you feel about it!