Is It Cool To Still Vacation Where I Did With My Ex
It something that we think we’ve all gone through, but is it cool to still vacation where you did with your ex? That was the issue this morning in another session of Group Therapy on The Mike & Carla Morning Show.
A woman has been dating a guy for a couple of years. She thought it was time to head back to Carmel, California for a vacation with the new beau. Now she had gone there with her ex…but they’ve been divorced for over 7 years now.
Is It Cool To Vacation Where You Did With Your Ex
According to a recent article in Psychology Today, some people actually try and avoid those places. The article suggest that maybe you should indeed go back…with a friend or family member.
Clearly the woman that emailed The M&C Morning Show didn’t have a problem with it. On the other hand, the new boyfriend thought it might be a little awkward.
It was established that if the woman kept pointing out things that she used to do with the ex, of course that could get a little uncomfortable. However, if you go and realize how cool the place really is, maybe, just maybe the new guy might like the place as well.
We get that there always new places to make your memories, however, if the woman truly love the area, why not give it a shot? You don’t have to vacation in the same exact places. Think about ways you can make it your own.
And if it’s only for a few days, suck it up and just go with the flow. Mike O’Brian brought up a great observation. Having been married 4 times, if he couldn’t go to places he had been with ex’s, he couldn’t go anywhere!
So, take a couple of minutes, listen to the segment and see if you don’t have your own opinion. Especially if you’ve been through the same thing…and enjoy!