Are You Ready Guys For A Birth Control Pill For Men
Well, it seemed that it was just a matter of time, but are your ready guys for a birth control pill for men? It came up this morning on The Mike & Carla Morning Show and it seemed to get a positive reaction.
We mean, given the choice between the “snip-snip” or just popping a pill…the pill WINS! Not a hard choice for men, but would you trust it enough. Tests are going on right now in England according to an article in the Guardian. And it says that they are on the verge of developing a birth control pill for men!
Guys, Are You Ready For A Birth Control Pill For Men?
The big question on The M&C Morning Show was how would this be accepted? According to the men that dialed into the show and texted in, an overwhelming YES! But then, ladies, if a guy told you his was on the “pill”, would you be trusting enough that it worked?
There seemed to be a fine line of wanting it to work and feeling that, if approved, it would work. All right, maybe 99% of the time…just like condoms right?
It’s a sensitive issue on so many levels, but getting to the heart of the matter, guys, you would have to be like clockwork taking the pill for it to be effective! It’s not like you could just pop one in right before heading to the bedroom…you laugh, but some guys would actually think that.
Do us a favor, read the article, then listen to the segment from this morning. You decide on which way you would go. It does make you think though…especially if you’re in a relationship. Just think ladies, the pressure would be off you and on your man, How nice would that be?
After shouldering the responsibility for so long, don’t you think it’s time for the men to step up! Well, the article does say, if there are few side affects and it works, will men actually take it? That’s up to you!
Toxic Relationships: 5 Signs You're In One, And What To Do About It
Everyone is looking for love and respect. It is the normal human condition. When we’re in a loving, respectful relationship, it is emotionally satisfying. However, when one often feels sadness, unhappiness, anger, distrust, low self-esteem, or fear, then these are signs you may be in a toxic relationship.
Just Because You Had A Fight Doesn’t Mean You’re In A Toxic Relationship
Every partnership comes with disagreements. If there are never issues, then it means you’re probably not talking to each other. That’s an issue in itself! Regardless, one fight does not mean you’re in a toxic relationship. With this in mind, it would be good to know the warning signs which identify a partnership that needs help.
There was a book released in 1995 titled Toxic People written by Dr. Lillian Glass. According to an article written by Sahlee B. on MyPositiveOutlooks.com, Dr. Glass was the originator of the term “toxic relationship.” Thus, in her book she describes the phrase this way: “any relationship [between people who] don’t support each other, where there’s conflict and one seeks to undermine the other, where there’s competition, where there’s disrespect and a lack of cohesiveness.”
Toxic Relationship: Diverse multiracial people hanging together in coffeehouse ignoring sad young girl sitting alone at cafe table, upset social outcast loner suffers from unfair attitude or discrimination among friends.
Romantic Relationships Aren’t The Only Ones That Go Bad
For the most part, when we think of toxic relationships, we usually assume they start as romantic partnerships. However, you can also find bad relationships in the family dynamic, with friends, and even at work. Specifically, if any person you know demonstrates violent, abusive, or manipulative behavior, you should remove yourself from that relationship.
As has been noted, there are other relationship behaviors that may be more subtle. Those will be discussed when you scroll down. But, what are the reasons a person may demonstrate toxic behaviors? Dr. Glass identifies reasons such as “a harsh childhood, bullying at home and at school, mental health issues, or trauma.” Sometimes, the two partners, friends, family members, or colleagues just may be incompatible. That happens.
How Should You Try To Resolve A Toxic Relationship?
If you find yourself in a toxic relationship you must determine whether or not you can save it. Will a more open dialogue help? Should you call upon a third party, such as a licensed therapist, to assist? As much as these ideas may help you resolve your differences, there are situations when you just have to walk away. If you feel the other party cannot, or will not, change, then end the relationship.
Unquestionably, if you feel that your health and well-being are in danger for any reason, you should involve the authorities. Locally, you can contact Crisis Support Services of Nevada at 1-775-221-7600. Nationally, you can call the Domestic Abuse Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.
1) Unhappiness
Toxic Relationship: Shot of a young couple sitting on the sofa at home and ignoring each other after a fight.
Is there any joy left in your relationship? Are you unhappy most of the time? If all you’re feeling is sadness, anxiety, emptiness, anger, or even worse, fear, then these is are signs that you’re in a toxic relationship. Do you ever look at a happy couple and feel envious? According to Dr. Glass, that is another signal that you’re in a bad partnership.
Self-Esteem Deteriorates
Toxic Relationship: Photo of a single sad young man with low self-esteem, lamenting his situation while sitting on the grass in a park.
Of course, low self-esteem cannot always be blamed on your partner. However, if you never had these feelings of low self-worth before you got involved with this person, then that is a red flag you should pay attention to. Dr. Glass points out that if your significant other spends a lot time belittling you, manipulates you, lowers your self-esteem with words, and constantly criticizes you, then you need to take action.
Broken Trust
Toxic Relationship: African-American couple, man and woman, ripping paper with trust inscription, while sitting on a sofa.
This is a biggie for relationships. Once you’ve lost trust, it is very difficult to regain it. Dr. Glass points out that frequent lying erodes your ability to rely on your partner. Dishonesty also signals a lack of respect between significant others.
Hostile Communication
Toxic Relationship: Mature lady crying, having quarrel with her husband while they are in the kitchen.
I was once involved in a relationship with a woman who would often get hostile with me. Let me tell you, it wasn’t fun. I got out of that relationship pretty quickly after it happened a few times, but a lot of people do not. They become so accustomed to the verbal abuse, they just let it continue. Although being yelled at is the obvious sign of hostile communication between partners, name-calling and aggressive behavior are other things to be aware of. Dr. Glass also says the “silent treatment,” or your partner constantly interrupting you, are other hostility red flags.
Lack Of Hearing And Understand
Toxic Relationship: Photo of a Man not listening to his shouting girlfriend on white background.
When you’re involved in a disagreement, do you find yourself listening to figure out how you’ll respond? Or, do you actually hear what your partner is saying so that you can better understand why you are both in this quarrel? If you or your significant other are constantly on the defensive emotionally during a disagreement, this is a warning sign. Dr. Glass would advise hearing what your partner says to better understand and empathize with their emotions.
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